TotallyRad » 16 Jan 2014 3:11 pm wrote: Annoyed Liberall » 16 Jan 2014 2:39 pm wrote:
I just found out my ex husband got divorced again. For the same reasons we got divorced.
I am happy because through our whole marriage he tried to convince me I was the problem.
Well, he has been married less than 2 years and it's over. I have been married to my 2nd husband for 12 years and we are going strong.
So, I guess it wasn't me after all. I feel vindicated.
But, I am wondering if it's bad that it makes me happy to see him miserable? I mean he deserves it and all, but I shouldn't be happy about others' misfortune, right?
It's almost impossible to not to take failed relationships personally. From what I know of you, I'm sure he did his best to make you miserable. I knew a woman that had a shitstain for a husband. He cheated on her constantly, and covered it up by accusing her of doing the same thing. So while she was busy trying to be a good wife, he was being a bastard. Divorce was the smart choice for her.
Yeah, he did the same thing.
Some people are just miserable bastards.